i. you always have a choice in life, don't ever believe someone who tells you otherwise. you can always choose what you think is best for you, and for the people you love, even if you're not given the option.
ii. life is all about living, making experiences, being happy, being sad, being alone, laughing, talking, loving, sex, drugs, alcohol, parties, fun, heartbreaks. they build life, and without it, life isn't itself. i know you might think that it's the end, that you can't do this anymore, but believe me, that you haven't been through anything in life yet to make you want to take it away, stay strong & love yourself, you deserve it.